Tired of saying yes when you mean NO?
You know that moment when someone asks for something and your brain screams NO but your mouth says “sure, no problem”?
You don’t need another book that says “just set boundaries.” You need the exact words — for your mom, your boss, your friend, the person you love — and a plan for when the guilt hits at 2 AM.
Scripts + Workbook · Save $9 vs separately
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what you get
Every situation comes with 3 response styles. Pick what fits your comfort level.
“I was just joking.
You’re so sensitive.”
I know you didn’t mean it that way. But it landed differently than you think.
If the joke only works when I pretend it didn’t bother me — it’s not really a joke.
I didn’t find it funny. (Don’t explain. Don’t smile. Let the silence sit.)
Haha no you’re right, I’m being dramatic, sorry!
You can say plenty. Just not that.
This is one situation.
You probably have a list.
All 6 categories inside:
Which one are you?
Five patterns. Yours is in here.
No one's ever asked what you actually want.
Typed a paragraph instead.
You open it anyway.
Then you checked if they replied yet.
Then your mother calls and none of it matters.
If one of those made you stop scrolling —
that's your pattern. Inside, there are scripts for each.
What people are saying
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the scripts
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Columbus, US
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Phoenix, US
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Canada
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What’s in the bundle
One part for the conversation.
One for everything around it.
The Scripts
For when your brain goes blank and your mouth defaults to yes.
- 65 situations you’ve actually been avoiding — saying no to a family request, ending a friendship that drains you, telling a partner what you actually need, asking your boss to stop messaging after hours.
- 195+ word-for-word scripts in 3 styles — gentle, assertive, grey rock.
- “If they push back” lines — the first no is never the hard part. The second one is.
- “What NOT to say” warnings — the polite phrases that sound fine but quietly undo your no.
The Workbook
For everything around the conversation—deciding, practicing, and the 2 AM after.
- Relationship Audit — 10 questions that tell you whether to set a boundary, have the conversation, or quietly exit.
- 35 boundary practices — from “leave a party 15 minutes early” to “say no to a family obligation that’s been on your calendar for years.”
- The 2 AM Guilt Plan — what to do when you’re lying awake convinced you ruined everything.
- The Permission Slip — the page people actually print and tape to the mirror.
Plus four things the scripts alone couldn’t cover:
The Pushback Cheat Sheet
Comebacks for “after everything I’ve done for you” and 9 other weaponized phrases.
Emergency Scripts
12 lines to memorize for when your brain freezes and your mouth decides for you.
The People-Pleaser Dictionary
“I’m fine,” “it’s okay,” “don’t worry about it”—translated. The page that hurts the most to read.
The “After You Say It” Guide
For the chest-tight moment when you almost text “sorry if that came out wrong.”
All of it, for less than one therapy session.
$28 + $16 separately. $35 together.
Send me both — $3530-day refund. No questions.
Look inside
Scripts for what to say. Workbook for the guilt after. No fluff. No “love yourself more” advice.
Questions?
What’s included in the bundle?
Scripts — 84-page PDF. 65 real-life situations, 195+ word-for-word responses, pushback scripts, “what NOT to say” warnings, and an emergency cheat sheet.
Workbook — 34-page printable PDF. 35 boundary practices, relationship audit, exit plan templates, 2 AM Guilt Plan, and CBT-based reframes.
How fast will I get it?
Instantly. Click buy, Stripe processes payment, download link appears on-screen + backup email within 2 minutes. These are digital PDFs — open on any device, anywhere. The Workbook is designed to be printed so you can write in it, but that’s optional.
I keep buying self-help stuff and never using it. Will this be different?
This isn’t a 300-page book you need to “get through.” Open the Scripts, find your situation, use the words. Most people use their first script within hours — because the next boundary situation is always right around the corner. The Workbook helps you process the guilt after.
What if I feel guilty after setting a boundary?
You will. That’s not a sign you did something wrong — it’s your old programming fighting back. The Scripts include “if they push back” responses so you don’t cave in the moment. And the Workbook has a dedicated 2 AM Guilt Plan for exactly this — when you’re lying awake wanting to take it all back.
The conversation you’ve been rehearsing all week.
You already know what’s coming. Now you’ll have the words — and a plan for when the guilt hits after.
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